Showing posts with label depressed. Show all posts
Showing posts with label depressed. Show all posts

Monday, May 2, 2011

Unhappy People Are FAKES. They are angry too!

The only way I can be unhappy for more than a moment of my precious time on this earth is when I am pretending about anything.. If you are unhappy, there is a good chance you are pretending about something.

You could be pretending you are something you are not. You could be pretending that what someone said or did to you is okay with you when it is not. You could be pretending your are happy when you are depressed. You could be pretending you give a shit when you do not.

Pretending about anything makes people unhappy for prolong periods of time.. It not only makes them unhappy, it makes them angry.

It makes people angry because they are not being true to themselves. Instead, they are being true to other peoples thoughts and beliefs rather than their own. In other words, they have sold out their integrity by believing that the thoughts and opinions of others are more important than their own.  Nothing like pretending (lying to yourself) to make you one unhappy, miserable person.

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Sunday, May 1, 2011

Stressed out?? If so, you are NOT being Real...

Stress is a result of not being real.   Stress is caused when you are doing things you don't like to do but feel you 'have to' do them. Stress is also caused when you are doing things based on someone's expectation of you instead of you marching to the beat of your own drummer.

Stress most often happens when you are pretending something is okay with you when it is not.  The place were people are less real and pretend more is in the work place.   When you pretend that things are okay with you when they are not, that is the time when the body stresses out.

Stress is also caused when you make looking good in the eyes of other people more important to you than feeling good about who you are.  When you are 'be-ing real' with yourself, you will rarely, if ever, feel stressed out.

Related Reading: 
Lying Makes us Physically Sick and Depressed 
Not a Nice Guy, Not Any More...